THE SUBJECTION OF CHILDREN
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Westermarck, Edward
Turning to African peoples: among the Danakil the aged of both sexes, but especially the males, are held in great veneration, and the old men are consulted on every occasion of any importance.68 “The real religion of the Barea and Kunáma,” says Munzinger, “consists in an extraordinary reverence for old age. Among these peoples only the old, the weak, or the blind command respect.”69 The Ew̔e-speaking peoples on the Slave Coast have a proverb, “Respect the elders, they are our fathers.”70 Winterbottom doubts whether the ancient Lacedæmonians paid greater regard to old age than do the natives of Sierra Leone.71 Mr. Leighton Wilson says of the Mpongwe:—“There is no part of the world where respect and veneration for age is carried to a greater length than among this people…. All the younger members of society are early trained to show the utmost deference to age. They must never come into the presence of aged persons or pass by their dwellings without taking off their hats and assuming a crouching gait. When seated in their presence it must always be at a ‘respectful distance’—a distance proportioned to the difference in their ages and position in society. If they come near enough to hand an aged man a lighted pipe or a glass of water, the bearer must always fall upon one knee. Aged persons must always be addressed as ‘father’ (rera) or ‘mother’ (ngwe). Any disrespectful deportment or reproachful language toward such persons is regarded as a misdemeanour of no ordinary aggravation.
A youthful person carefully avoids communicating any disagreeable intelligence to such persons, and almost always addresses them in terms of flattery and adulation.”72 Among the For tribe of Central Africa “great consideration is shown towards women when they are old, as well as towards aged men.”73 Regard for old age is, in fact, a very general trait of the African character.74
Not only old age, but superiority of age, gives a certain amount of power.
The Australian natives have a well-regulated order of precedence and authority. “When the individual reaches the full development of puberty, he or she undergoes a ceremony which entitles him or her on its successful completion to a certain social rank or status in the community. As life progresses, other and higher ranks are progressively attainable for each sex, until the highest and most honourable grade, that enjoyed by an old man, or an old woman, is reached.”75 All North American Indians “hold that superior age gives authority; and every person is taught from childhood to obey his superiors and to rule over his inferiors. The superiors are those of greater age; the inferiors, those who are younger.”76 The same influence of age makes itself felt in the relations between elder and younger brothers and sisters.77 Navaho myths indicate that “even among twins, the younger must defer to the elder.”78 The eldest brother comes next to the father in authority, and, in case of his death, succeeds him as the head of the family.
The Aleuts described by Father Veniaminof maintained that “if one had no father he should respect his oldest brother and serve him as he would a father.”79 Among the Kalmucks “the elder brother is the despot of the younger ones, and is even allowed to punish them.”80 In Madagascar so great respect is paid to seniority “that if two slaves who are brothers are going a journey, any burden must be carried by the younger one, so far at least as his strength will allow.”81 In Tonga custom decrees “that all persons shall be in the service of their older and superior relations, if those relations think proper to employ them”; and every chief shows the greatest regard for his eldest sister.82 Among the Hottentots “the highest oath a man could take and still takes, was to swear by his eldest sister, and if he should abuse this name, the sister will walk into his flock and take his finest cows and sheep, and no law could prevent her from doing so.”83 Among the Point Barrow Eskimo, again, “seniority gives precedence when there are several women in one hut, and the sway of the elder in the direction of everything connected with her duties seems never disputed.”84
It must be added, however, that the reverence for old age may cease when the grey-head gets so old as to be an incumbrance to those around him;85 and imbecility may put an end to the father’s authority over his family.86 We have previously noticed that parents worn out with age and disease are among some peoples killed or abandoned by their own children.87
When passing from the savage and barbarous races of men to those next above them in civilisation, we find paternal, or parental, authority and filial reverence at their height. In ancient Mexico “necessitous parents were allowed to dispose of any one of their children, in order to relieve their poverty,” whereas a master could not sell a well-behaved slave without his consent.88 A youth was seldom permitted to choose a wife for himself, but was expected to abide by the selection of his parents;89 and “children were bred to stand so much in awe of their parents that even when grown up and married they hardly durst speak before them.”90 So, too, in Nicaragua a father might sell his children as slaves in cases of great necessity,91 and matches were in the larger part of the country arranged by the parents.92 In ancient Peru disobedient children were publicly chastised by their own parents;93 and Inca Pachacutec confirmed the law that sons should obey and serve their fathers until they reached the age of twenty-five, and that none should marry without the consent of the parents and of the parents of the girl.94
In China a house-father reigns almost supreme in his family, and, according to ancient Chinese ideas, not even marriage withdraws the son from his power.95 The law, it is true, prohibits him from killing96 or selling97 his children; but it is only in supreme cases that the State interferes between the head of a household and his family belongings, and the sale of children is practically allowed.98 No person, of whatever age, can act for himself in matrimonial matters during the lifetime or in the neighbourhood of his parents or near senior kinsfolk.99 The law provides that disobedience to the instructions and commands of parents or paternal grandparents shall be punished with one hundred blows,100 and that a still greater punishment shall be inflicted on a son accusing his father or mother and on a grandson accusing his paternal grandparent, even though the accusation prove true.101 Indeed, from earliest youth the Chinese lad is imbued with such respect for his parents that it becomes at last a religious sentiment, and forms, as he gets older, the basis of his only creed—the worship of ancestors.102 Confucianism itself has been briefly described as “an expansion of the root idea of filial piety.”103 The Master said:—“filial piety is the root of all virtue, and the stem out of which grows all moral teaching…. Filial piety is the constant method of Heaven, the righteousness of Earth, and the practical duty of Man…. Of all the actions of man there is none greater than filial piety. In filial piety there is nothing greater than the reverential awe of one’s father.
In the reverential awe shown to one’s father there is nothing greater than the making him the correlate of Heaven.”104 But the idea that filial piety is the fundamental duty of man was not originated by Confucius, it had obtained a firm hold of the national mind long before his time.105 It also prevails in Corea106 and Japan,107 where the authority of a house-father is, or, in the case of Japan, until lately has been,108 as great as in China. “The Japanese maiden, as pure as the purest Christian virgin, will at the command of her father enter the brothel to-morrow, and prostitute herself for life. Not a murmur escapes her lips as she thus filially obeys.”109 In Corea, whilst the first thing inculcated in a child’s mind is respect for his father, little respect is felt for the mother; the child soon learns that a mother’s authority is next to nothing.110
Source notes
67 Fison and Howitt, Kamilaroi and Kurnai, p. 211 sq.
68 Scaramucci and Giglioli, ‘Notizie sui Danakil,’ in Archivio per l’antropologia e la etnologia, xiv. 36.
69 Munzinger, Ostafrikanische Studien, p. 474.
70 Ellis, Ew̔e-speaking Peoples, p. 268.
71 Winterbottom, Native Africans in the Neighbourhood of Sierra Leone, i. 211.
72 Wilson, Western Africa, p. 392 sq.
73 Felkin, ‘Notes on the For Tribe of Central Africa,’ in Proceed. Roy. Soc. Edinburgh, xiii. 224 sq.
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75 Roth, op. cit. p. 169. Cf. ibid. p. 65 sq.; Eyre, Journals of Expeditions of Discovery into Central Australia, ii. 315.
76 Powell, ‘Sociology,’ in American Anthropologist, N. S. i. 700. Cf. Idem, in Ann. Rep. Bur. Ethn. iii. p. lviii.
77 Nachtigal, Sahara und Sudan, i. 450 (Tedâ). Chavanne, Die Sahara, p. 396 (Arabs of the Sahara). Paulitschke, op. cit. p. 192 (Gallas). von Haxthausen, Transcaucasia, p. 415 (Ossetes). Bach, ‘Die Wotjaken,’ in Acta Societatis Scientiarum Fennicæ, xii. 489 (Votyaks). Sumner, in Jour. Anthr. Inst. xxxi. 75 (Jakuts). Batchelor, Ainu and their Folk-Lore, p. 254.
78 Matthews, ‘Study of Ethics among the Lower Races,’ in Journal of American Folk-Lore, xii. 9.
79 Veniaminof, quoted by Petroff, loc. cit. p. 155.
80 Bergmann, Nomadische Streifereien unter den Kalmüken, ii. 305.
81 Sibree, op. cit. p. 182.
82 Mariner, op. cit. i. 226; ii. 155.
83 Hahn, The Supreme Being of the Khoi-Khoi, p. 21.
84 Simpson, quoted by Murdoch, in Ann. Rep. Bur. Ethn. ix. 427.
85 Curr, Squatting in Victoria, pp. 254. 245, 265 sqq.; Eyre, op. cit. ii. 316 (Australian aborigines). Sumner, in Jour. Anthr. Inst. xxxi. 76 (Jakuts). Nansen, Eskimo Life, p. 177 sq. (Greenlanders). Supra, p. 534.
86 Steinmetz, Rechtsverhältnisse, p. 31 (Banaka and Bapuku).
87Supra, p. 386 sq.
88 Clavigero, History of Mexico, i. 360.
89 Westermarck, op. cit. p. 226.
90 Clavigero, op. cit. i. 331.
91 Squier, Nicaragua, p. 345.
92 Bancroft, Native Races of the Pacific States, ii. 667.
93 Herrera, General History of the West Indies, iv. 339.
94 Garcilasso de la Vega, First Part of the Royal Commentaries of the Yncas, ii. 207.
95 de Groot, Religious System of China (vol. ii. book) i. 507.
96Supra, p. 393.
97Ta Tsing Leu Lee, sec. cclxxv. p. 292.