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The origin and development of the moral ideas

FREE LOVE—ADULTERY

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Of the Australian Maroura tribe, Lower Darling, we are told that before the advent of the whites “their laws were strict, especially those regarding young men and young women. It was almost death to a young lad or man who had sexual intercourse till married.”38 Among various tribes in Western Victoria “illegitimacy is rare, and is looked upon with such abhorrence that the mother is always severely beaten by her relatives, and sometimes put to death and burned. Her child is occasionally killed and burned with her. The father of the child is also punished with the greatest severity, and occasionally killed.”39
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In Nias the pregnancy of an unmarried girl is punished with death, inflicted not only upon her but upon the seducer as well.40 Among the Bódo and Dhimáls of India chastity is prized in man and woman, married and unmarried.41 Among the Tunguses “in irregular amours only the men are punished,” the seducer being obliged either to purchase the girl at a certain price or, if he refuses, to submit to corporal punishment.42 Among the Thlinkets, “if unmarried women prove frail the partner of their guilt, if discovered, is bound to make reparation to the parents, soothing their wounded honour with handsome presents.”43 In certain North American tribes the seducer is said to be viewed with even more contempt than the girl whom he has dishonoured.44
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Passing to more advanced races, we find that chastity is regarded as a duty for unmarried women, whilst a different standard of morality is generally applied to men. “Confucianism,” says Mr. Griffis, “virtually admits two standards of morality, one for man, another for woman…. Chastity is a female virtue, it is a part of womanly duty, it has little or no relation to man personally.”45 Yet it is held up as an ideal even to men. It is said that in youth, when the physical powers are not yet settled, the superior man guards against lust.46 Though licentious in their habits, the Chinese exalt and dignify chastity as a means of bringing the soul and body nearer to the highest excellence;47 one of their proverbs even maintains that “of the myriad vices, lust is the worst.”48 Chastity for its own sake, when defended by a woman at the expense of her life, meets with a reward at the hands of the Government. “If a woman”—so the Ordinances run—“be compelled by her husband to prostitute herself for money, and takes her own life in order to preserve her chastity, or if an unmarried virgin loses her life in defending herself against violation, an honorary gate shall be erected in each case near the door of the paternal dwelling.”49 According to the Chinese Penal Code, “criminal intercourse by mutual consent with an unmarried woman shall be punished with seventy blows,” whilst the punishment for such intercourse with a married woman is eighty blows.50
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Among the ancient Hebrews fornication was forbidden to women51 but not to men. The action of Judah towards the supposed harlot on the way to Timnath is mentioned as the most natural thing in the world,52 even though the perpetrator was a man of wealth and position, a man whom his brethren “shall praise” and before whom his “father’s children shall bow down.”53 Throughout the Muhammedan world chastity is regarded as an essential duty for a woman.54 In Persia an unmarried girl who gave birth to a child would surely be killed.55 Among the Fellaheen of Egypt a father or brother in most instances punishes an unmarried daughter or sister who has been guilty of incontinence by throwing her into the Nile with a stone tied to her neck, or cutting her to pieces, and then throwing her remains into the river.56 Among the Jbâla and Rif Berbers of Morocco she is also frequently killed. For unmarried men, on the other hand, chastity is by Muhammedans at most looked upon as an ideal, almost out of reach. The Caliph Ali said that “with a man who is modest and chaste nobody should find fault.”57 We are told that the Muhammedans of India consider it inconceivable that a Moslem should have illicit intercourse with a free Muhammedan woman;58 but connections with slave girls are regarded in a different light.
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Among the Hindus sexual impurity is scarcely considered a sin in the men, but “in females nothing is held more execrable or abominable. The unhappy inhabitants of houses of ill fame are looked upon as the most degraded of the human species.”59 In one of the Pahlavi texts continence is recommended from the point of view of prudence:—“Commit no lustfulness, so that harm and regret may not reach thee from thine own actions.”60 But in Zoroastrianism, also, chastity is chiefly a female duty. It is written in the Avesta, “Any woman that has given up her body to two men in one day is sooner to be killed than a wolf, a lion, or a snake.”61
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Among the ancient Teutons an unmarried woman who belonged to an honourable family was severely punished for going wrong, and the seducer was exposed to the revenge of her family, or had to pay compensation for his deed.62 The yet un-Romanised Saxons, down to the days of St. Boniface, compelled a maiden who had dishonoured her father’s house, as well as an adulteress, to hang herself, after which her body was burned and her paramour hung over the blazing pile; or she was scourged or cut with knives by all the women of the village till she was dead.63
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In Greece the chastity of an unmarried girl was anxiously guarded.64 According to Athenian law, the relatives of a maiden who had lost her virtue could with impunity kill the seducer on the spot.65 Virginity was an object of worship. Chastity was the pre-eminent attribute of sanctity ascribed to Athene and Artemis, and the Parthenon, or virgin’s temple, was the noblest religious edifice of Athens.66 It is true that a certain class of courtesans occupied a remarkably high position in the social life of Greece, being admired and sought after even by the principal men. But they did so on account of their extraordinary beauty or their intellectual superiority; to the Greek mind the moral standard was by no means the only standard of excellence. The Romans, on the other hand, regarded the courtesan class with much contempt.67 In A.D. 19 the profligacy of women was checked by stringent enactments, and it was provided that no woman whose grandfather, father, or husband had been a Roman knight should get money by prostitution. 68 The names of prostitutes had to be published on the aedile’s list, as Tacitus says, “according to a recognised custom of our ancestors, who considered it a sufficient punishment on unchaste women to have to profess their shame.”69 But both in Rome and Greece pre-nuptial unchastity in men, when it was not excessive70 or did not take some especially offensive form, was hardly censured by public opinion.71 The elder Cato expressly justified it.72 Cicero says:—“If there be any one who thinks that youth is to be wholly interdicted from amours with courtesans,
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he certainly is very strict indeed. I cannot deny what he says; but still he is at variance not only with the licence of the present age, but even with the habits of our ancestors, and with what they used to consider allowable. For when was the time that men were not used to act in this manner? When was such conduct found fault with? When was it not permitted? When, in short, was the time when that which is lawful was not lawful?”73 Epictetus only went a little step further. He said to his disciples:—“Concerning sexual pleasures, it is right to be pure before marriage, as much as in you lies. But if you indulge in them, let it be according to what is lawful. But do not in any case make yourself disagreeable to those who use such pleasures, nor be fond of reproving them, nor of putting yourself forward as not using them.”74 Here chastity in men is at all events recognised as an ideal. But even in pagan antiquity there were a few who enjoined it as a duty.75 Musonius Rufus emphatically asserted that no union of the sexes other than marriage was permissible,76 and Dio Chrysostom desired prostitution to be suppressed by law.77 Similar opinions grew up in connection with the Neo-Platonic and Neo-Pythagorean philosophies, and may be traced back to the ancient masters themselves.

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34 Warner, in Maclean, op. cit. p. 64.
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37 Livingstone, Missionary Travels, p. 513.
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38 Holden, in Taplin, Folklore of the South Australian Aborigines, p. 19.
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39 Dawson, Australian Aborigines, p. 28.
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40 Wilken, in Bijdragen tot de taal- land- en volkenkunde van Nederlandsch-Indië, ser. v. vol. iv. 444.
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41 Hodgson, Miscellaneous Essays, i. 123.
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43 Douglas, quoted by Petroff, Report on Alaska, p. 177.
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45 Griffis, Religions of Japan, p. 149.
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47 Wells Williams, Middle Kingdom, ii. 193.
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48 Smith, Proverbs of the Chinese, p. 256.
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49 de Groot, Religious System of China, (vol. ii. book) i. 752 sq.
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50Ta Tsing Leu Lee, sec. ccclxvi. p. 404.
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51Leviticus, xix. 29. Deuteronomy, xxiii. 18.
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56 Lane, Manners and Customs of the Modern Egyptians, p. 209.
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57 Ameer Ali, Ethics of Islâm, p. 30.
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58 Lane-Poole, Studies in a Mosque, p. 106.
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59Calcutta Review, ii. 23. Dubois, Description of the Character, &c. of the People of India, p. 193. Cf.Laws of Manu, ix. 51 sq.
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60Dînâ-î Maînôg-î Khirad, ii. 23 sq.
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61 Darmesteter, in Sacred Books of the East, iv. 206, n. 1.
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62 Brunner, Deutsche Rechtsgeschichte, ii. 659 sqq. Wilda, Strafrecht der Germanen, p. 799 sqq. Nordström, Bidrag till den svenska samhälls-författningens historia, ii. 67. Maurer, Bekehrung des Norwegischen Stammes, ii. 154.
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63 Milman, History of Latin Christianity, ii. 54.

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